At Seth and Beth Wedding Photography, we’ve captured countless weddings where children play a special role in making the day even more memorable and we want to show how to incorporate kids into the wedding day. Whether they’re nieces, nephews, your own children, or the little ones of close friends, incorporating kids into your wedding can add heartfelt, candid moments that you’ll treasure forever. Here are some thoughtful, practical, and joyful ways to make them part of your celebration — and ensure they shine in the photos, too.

1. Give Them a Special Role

The classic roles of flower girl and ring bearer never go out of style, but don’t feel limited to those. Kids can be junior bridesmaids or groomsmen, hand out programs, walk down the aisle with a sign (“Here comes the bride!”), or even carry balloons or bubbles. Giving them a job makes them feel important and involved.

2. Include Them in Getting Ready

If you have kids who are very close to you — or are your own children — let them be part of the pre-ceremony excitement. Matching robes, helping the bride with her shoes, or sharing a quiet moment while getting ready can lead to some of the sweetest candid photos.

3. Plan a Kid-Friendly Ceremony Moment

Let kids participate in the ceremony beyond walking down the aisle. Ideas include:

  • Reading a short poem or scripture.
  • Presenting flowers to parents or grandparents.
  • Joining a unity ceremony (like pouring sand or tying a knot as a family).

4. Capture Family Portraits with Intention

Weddings move fast, and kids’ attention spans are short. When it comes to formal photos, we recommend creating a clear, short list of must-have family groupings. We’ll work efficiently (and maybe even bring a few silly tricks) to keep it light and fun.

5. Provide Kid-Friendly Entertainment at the Reception

A kid’s corner with coloring books, puzzles, or small toys can help keep little ones happy during the reception. Some couples even hire a babysitter or entertainer (like a balloon artist) so parents can relax and enjoy the celebration. Happy kids make for happy photos!

6. Give Them a Dance Floor Moment

We’ve photographed some of the most joyful moments when kids hit the dance floor! Consider opening the dance floor with a kid-friendly song or giving them a special dance with the couple. These playful shots are always a guest favorite in wedding albums.

7. Be Flexible and Have Grace

Kids are wonderfully unpredictable. They might get shy, tired, or extra silly — and that’s okay! Some of the best, most genuine photos come from embracing those candid, unplanned moments.

Including children in your wedding brings heart, spontaneity, and joy to the day — and we’re here to document every sweet smile, happy giggle, and proud moment. If you’re planning to incorporate kids into your celebration, let’s chat about how we can capture them naturally and beautifully throughout your wedding day.


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